For many, physically being on top (e.g., the woman-on-top position) provides specific advantages:
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If you are drafting this for a story, avoid overused adjectives. Instead of calling it a "sexy top," describe how the light catches the silk or how the wearer stands a little taller when the zippers are done up. Effective erotic or romantic writing focuses on the sensory experience