In a sexual and social context, a "top" generally refers to the partner who takes a more proactive or giving role during intimacy.
Ava introduced herself, and they began to talk about the painting, about art, and about life. Jamie was easy to talk to, with a quick wit and a listening ear. As they walked through the fair together, Ava found herself opening up in ways she hadn't expected.
Being a top is about more than just physical actions; it often involves a specific energy or mindset during intimacy.
At its most basic, a is someone who takes the active role during sexual intimacy. In a lesbian context, this usually means the person who is initiating, performing acts on their partner, or "driving" the experience.