We have. When people find out, they project their own fears. We have been called "perverts" and "abusers." We have been quietly dropped from playdates. That hurts. But we have also found our tribe.
James just held me. He didn't care that we "played" or not. He cared that I was safe. He told me, “The dynamic isn’t about him. It’s about us.” diary of a real hotwife