Before the first marigold is strung, extensive preparations and pre-wedding rituals take place. These are designed to purify the couple and seek divine blessings.
This is the point of no return. The Roka is an informal ceremony where the families meet to officially approve the match. It is a declaration of intent. The Tilak (specifically in North India) follows, where the groom’s family visits the bride’s home. The groom’s male relatives apply a tilak (vermilion mark) on his forehead, and the father of the bride gifts him cash or gifts, symbolizing that the groom will now protect the bride as his own. Madhuri Dixit Suhagrat Seen
officially initiates wedding preparations, signifying the couple's commitment to each other. This is often followed by the Nischitartham Before the first marigold is strung, extensive preparations